mmo player eh?
The number one cause of an argument... is two parties presuming two different definitions for the same word.
More than any other franchise, The Elder Scrolls has retained the
original definition of 'RPG' among it's majority fanbase.
In today's modern world RPG just means "fantasy game with numbers in it".
Hell, I've heard League of Legends called an RPG.
But RPG actually used to mean roleplaying game... now I ask you OP, honestly... what
role did you play in this game?
Part of the deal with a good RPG (in the old skool sense) is that we take responsibility for our own characters weaknesses.
As players we have the maturity and desire to impose limitations on ourselves to enhance the sense of immersion in the role.
That sense of immersion is why we play... perhaps you may have noticed the word crop up from time to time in connection with TES hmm?
You... like to win.
We... like to play.
You like to 'beat the game'.
We like to finish a story (but... not too quickly eh?).
I wonder how many hours you took to achieve your godhood?
Less than the total amount of hours I've been playing I bet... and I haven't even been to see the graybeards yet.

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