Playing through both sides gives you a good idea of things. I thought Bear of Markarth was for the most part true at first too.
Talk to the jarls too. Make sure you talk to each of them and their replacements. There's some stormcloak jarls I absolutely hate, and the same goes for imperials.
Brunwulf will refuse to let the argonians into windhelm though. It's the culture of the city that's the problem. The nords don't particularly like them, and there's dunmer that still remember Red Year. It's a rather unfortunate situation.
Woulda been neat if the Dunmer had followed suit to what the orcs did. Coulda had some genuine interesting dunmer villages. Perhaps a couple sects based on the houses. Only problem being they probably would've been just as sparsely populated.
My problem is that I think both sides are wrong to some degree. The Redguards had a point when they said if the Empire resisted a little longer the Thalmor would have stretched themselves too much and the Great War could have been reversed. Banning Talos is much more important than what it seems at face value though I doubt the everyday resident of Tamriel knows why.
I will present this as basically as I can and keep in mind my version is probably a bit off from the original theory. In theory, and I believe this one as it is backed up by MK and makes sense, Talos and gods/people like him have been the ones who keep the current kalpa/world from basically ending and then starting over as a new Kalpa. If Talos goes then the anchor holding Nirn in its current Kalpa is gone too. However in the time that belief in Talos dwindles, and the gods are formed by the belief in them and given power and structure according to those beliefs, Talos dwindles. When people stop believing in Talos he weakens and fades. If he does that enough he no longer will be a god and will likely disappear. The cycle of Kalpas past and future cycles the Aedra and Daedra into various roles eventually freeing them to wander the outer realms of mundus (I think) and the Aedra are likely tiring of their current role. Talos is holding them in place(likely) or convincing them to stay(unlikely). Basically Talos is important as [censored] to the current world and taking away the belief of him is a HUGE deal.
The Stormcloaks have a good reason for preserving Talos worship but they do not understand his mythpoeic significance. They do however make things harder on the only force that seems capable of stopping the Thalmor. The Empire. The Empire needs time to recover and then they will re-institute Talos worship and beat back the Thalmor. But how much time before Talos fades? The rebellion was bound to happen though.
I have talked to many jarls but not all. I know I have not talked to a single replacement Jarl unless those include people I have already met in the game somewhere else. It seems I have some playing to do.
Brunwulf actually says that? And he states there are Dunmer that still remember the Red Year? If that is true then clearly BGS intended more for the situation in Windhelm but just ran out of time. It seems woefully underdeveloped.
Lol I agree. I was actually discussing that in the mods forum. Some guy called Gallowglass is thinking of making an http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1350247-what-would-want-in-an-ashlander-mod/. Obviously something that will take time if he plans on using traditional Dunmer objects which seems to be the gist of the mod. I dunno if the guy is actually going to do it or not but I was having fun discussing it. Not the same as the houses but I think it is time that all the old Great Houses of Morrowind died off. They only hurt the Dunmer in my opinion. Maybe some new ones would be cool or the old ones with new ideals.
I think many have said this before but I'll say it again; Wow Albiondunmer you sure know your lore! By reading your posts, I grew increasingly more accepting of the Dunmer (and increasingly ashamed of...certain comments

). I mean I still don't like them that much and will probably never role-play a Dunmer (probably because I can't relate to them) but I have completely changed my mindset since I started this thread. Also, thanks for taking the time to explain all this to us...well me really (it seems I'm the only one here who doesn't know what he's talking about

). Are you by any chance interested in Tolkien lore?
No problem, glad I persuaded you to look beyond the bad though. I never liked Dunmer initially until I roleplayed one that rebelled against his culture in Morrowind and rejected Slavery and racism. Really if you just ignore the Xenophobia and Slavery of the Dunmer they are actually really cool. So playing as a Dunmer raised with their culture but that also rejects their more racist beliefs is quite rewarding. A little similar to Drizzt Do'Urden but still fun. My first character was a Nord I think lol. The racials in morrowind for a Nord were just badass. Like 100% resist frost and 50% resist shock or something like that.
Well I enjoyed the books(Hobbit-Return of the King) and later the movies I never really got into Tolkiens lore too much. I read the Silmarilion(?) a long time ago so I have a basic idea of how the world works but that is about the extent I have. Oh I also played a few games for them as well. Very interesting stuff but for whatever reason it just never grabbed me like TES lore did. Oh and trust me, I don't know that much in comparison to some people. The Lore forum is where it is at. Those guys trump the crap out of me just about everywhere. Dunmer lore might be the only place I could begin to hold my ground.