The Svann speaks and provides much truth. Perhaps it is wise to assume the Dunmer are a spoiled race, no?
Bad kitty.
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Now, no Dunmer in Windhelm mentions the Argonians, save Suvaris Atheron (the Dunmer being bullied by Rolff Stone-Fist and Angrenor when you first enter the city), who calls them lazy, and has deprived Stands-in-Shallows of his skooma. Though, considering that the other Dunmer don't think much of her for working for a Nord family ("Have they given you one of those helmets with the horns on them yet?"), I can't blame her for venting her anger.
The Argonians mostly focus their anger on the Nords, though Scouts-Many-Marshes "wishes the Nords, Argonians, and dark elves in Windhelm got along better" -- though this doesn't directly state conflict, and can be interpreted more along the lines of "I wish the Nords liked us minorities more." In fact, the barkeep at the New Gnisis Cornerclub is quite friendly/chatty with Scouts, though thanks to Scouts' schedule, these scenes can't be seen in-game. I'll post them both if anyone wants me to.
I mentioned this before, but here's the direct quote. Post-Imperial takeover, the Argonians are not being kept out of the city to keep them from the Dunmer:
"Most of the folk in the city believe as Ulfric did, that outsiders should not be trusted. Until those people learn to accept the Argonians, they must remain outside, for their own safety. Old habits don't die easily, and we Nords can be as stubborn as stone." - Brunwuulf Free-Winter
For the records, here's his dialogue about the Dunmer:
"I met with several of the Dark Elves to discuss improvements in the Gray Quarter, but we have no real plans as of yet. First we'll need to refill our coffers and stockpile stone and wood. The war took a heavy toll on Windhelm's resources. But I swore an oath to our Dunmer friends that, for as long as I sit on the throne of Windhelm, their needs will not be ignored."
And a collection of quotes from the minorities:
"Unlike Ulfric, Brunwulf has shown a great willingness to work with the other races and make us feel more at home here." - Aval Atheron
"You must be new around here, or you'd know they don't let my kind live anywhere outside that slum." - Aval Atheron
"If it looks to you like an impoverished slum, that's because it is. Ulfric prefers that we live in squalor... He tolerates us, but that's the extent of his hospitality." - Malthyr Elenil
"Ulfric and his Stormcloaks made no secret of their disdain for the Dark Elves." - Malthyr
"But in time, I made the right friends and proved myself useful enough that they don't give me trouble anymore. The dark elves are too proud and naive to understand the way things truly are, and so they continue to dwell in that slum." - Niranye (bear in mind that she is in a position of power -- she fences for the Summerset Shadows; taking her first sentence into account, it comes across less as "the Dunmer are too proud" and more "the Dunmer don't have the right criminal connections")
"They're parasites. They're living in our city, under our protection, but what do they do for us? Nothing! I know the High King invited them here, but he didn't ask me or anyone else first. Maybe he should have." - Rolff Stone-Fist (before anyone quotes him, read the next quote)
"They've done nothing to help in the fight for Skyrim's freedom. Those Thalmor are elves, too. I bet they're working together. Maybe I should round up some men and take us a few prisoners to interrogate." - Rolff (in my opinion, he just lost a good chunk of his credibility)
"Did you know it was his decree that forbade the Argonians from living inside the city walls?" - Scouts (so, in other words, Argonians could live in the city when Ulfric's father was ruling)
"And it isn't just the dark elves they hate -- they make a target of the Argonians as well." - Suvaris (I don't hate Suvaris, I really don't -- I wonder if this is "I feel for them" or "Nord bigotry disrupts their work, which disrupts my work"?)
More Rolff! These are his angry drunken rants:
"Go back to Morrowind, Dark Elf maggots! You're not welcome here!"
"Get out of our city, gray-skins! This is Nord land!"
"We don't want your kind here, dark elves!"
"This place reeks of gray-skin filth!"
"You like living in this filthy slum, dark elves? Maybe you should go back to Morrowind, where you belong!"
Bear in mind that Rolff is Galmar's brother, and Galmar is Ulfric's second-in-command.
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Now that that quote deluge is done, it's less that the Dark Elves want free stuff, and more that they don't want to be treated like crap. The slum might be bearable if it didn't come with racism.
Why do they go to Ulfric for help? Well, for one thing, I don't see any independent construction companies, do you?
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If an Altmer from Alinor can be accepted
People, please stop using Niranye as an example! How many of you have dealt with her? I mean, *really* dealt with her? She's smug and condescending because she knows you can't touch her -- Linwe would kill who ever makes trouble for her. She's not "accepted," she's feared.
There are other Altmer in the city -- a looney potion-seller who runs a monopoly, and the people who run the stables -- outside the walls, away from any Nords.