Did you seriously just use Final Fantasy as a comparison game to what RPG's SHOULD BE?
Wow. I would state that Final Fantasy games have done more to ruin RPG's as a genre than anything else. The linear movement of the quests, the constant grinding for levels before you can progress, the absolute LACK of story options itself is just...maddening.
Neverwinter Nights is a Diablo ripoff- albeit with a better story. Again, linear, no true open world options.
Your choices for 'best RPG games' illustrate exactly why this game is not a good fit for you. You want someone telling you exactly what path to take. You want someone in your group or an Elder in the game to direct your feet on the path. These games have no challenge- their idea of challenge is throwing multiple trash mobs at you constantly until you hit a big boss, which usually has some sort of elemental weakness or attack order weakness. It's button mashing at its finest.
This is very interesting.
Do not do the same stupid mistake as many in these forums and confuse RPG with roleplaying and story, please... the term RPG is about numbers and character progression, which ff games do much better than Skyrim. Also, Skyrim is almost as linear as FF XII is - the only difference is Skyrim has more (although short and badly written) questlines to pursue, and a few select side-quests have some choice involved, that ultimately has no effect on the world. Final fantasy may not give you story choices, but at least the world around you changes as you do big things...
But story has very little to do with a game being good as an rpg, so I digress.
Yes, final fantasy games are not true rpgs, they are tbs/rpg hybrids. Just like Skyrim isn't a true rpg either, it's an action/rpg hybrid.
Oh, and being a good fit for me has nothing to do with it being a good rpg or not. I enjoyed Skyrim very much, but not as an RPG - it is a bad RPG. That doesn't change. It's also a bad action game. But it is a very good adventure game. Which is why Bethesda should realise they gotta choose what their next TES will be - an RPG or an action/adventure, because they seem to not really be able to get the best of both worlds atm...