Again tried everything know to community...still no change
video included:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_pXaI-IaRQ
i have to say...its a bit better...STILL UNPLAYABLE TO BE CLEAR....but a bit better
at this rate should be running fluent in about 10 days

ooh...and since now i have like 1h of gameplay ( done like 2-3 min of the game though ) i cant seem to notice the exact UBER graphics that causes the stuttering and lag...
textures are low res....like hl 1 in some cases
might be an issue also...though not sure !