2) This isnt about what is traditional, this is about what was designed for Skyrim. If what you want is a different game, then just play a different game. There is a fine line between "improving" and "re-designing".
That being said, I really want to adress the part I quoted. Since you seem to think a point is gotten across better through caps, let me try:
DO YOU REALLISE HOW FKING SELFISH AND IMMATURE YOU ARE BEING?
"Hey, who gives a [censored] what happens to others if it doesnt affect me, yay!".
Get over yourself. The idea is not "oh noes, he is stronger then me!", the idea is that I wont break what someone else is enjoying just so i can have my way. Thats just childish. Aka, I wont break the entire mage archetype gameplay in this game just so you can turn into a god while using only a fifth of your customization points (perks, in this case). Hell, just typing it makes me feel stupid.
Here is your entire argument, here is what I am reading from your words:
You are asking them to make a single perk tree as powerfull as 5 other combined, and dont even understand how that would break the game's balance? Are you that hopeless?
I'll repeat it again:
Should taking only Destruction be equivalent of a fully built warrior? No. Never. Not in a thousand years. Its illogical and counter-productive: you are just creating a new problem by making the game un-challenging for anyone who wants to use all their perk points, the way the game was designed to be played.