No kidding, it's not nearly as bad as the internets would have you beleive
Personal opinion.
Personally, I think its worse than some of the internets would have you believe.
They should have included engineer hats, no choice you make really matters, you have no control over what "your" Hawke says, if you attempt to role play, your Hawke comes across as a manic depressive sociopath with anger management issues, EABioware's maleHawke has the wedding crashing rapist's voice, you have one cave that repeats, fedex quests where you return rotting corpses you find in the cave to relatives you psychically "know" are the idiots who went out exploring the cave while carrying the rotting body, enemies parachute in from the sky, even when you're indoors and they have to dematerialize through the ceiling or something, enemies not only explode, but fall apart in lego pieces, and you find out that no matter what you do it makes no real difference in the game. I really disliked everything they retconned, flat out changed with no explanation, and completely ignored from their first game. I don't care whether they are going to attempt to copy Skyrim or not; I'm not bothering with any more of EABioware's games. Pity actually. DA:O is a favorite, and I still play it.
I played it; my brother didn't listen and bought it. He never made it through the second act. He lost interest in it completely. I borrowed it, I played it, I forced myself to finish it by skipping a lot of things. I gave it back to him, and he sold it.