Oblivion and Skyrim are my only Elder Scrolls games.
Weren't people against things like no spellmaking, no stats, etc prior to release? Yes they were...but we have what they made.
What was I expecting to be kept from Oblivion that Skyrim doesn't have? Reputation system, Speechcraft being largely what it was in Oblivion with a new form of haggling and Disposition. I didn't really care for the Speechcraft mini game in Oblivion...but yeh, what we have in Skyrim isn't what I would call better.
It seems to me that a lot of us like the things that were in he first TES game we played....other than Arena.
But we also should realize that Bethesda has tried some crazy new stuff in each of their games. Skyrim isn't any different in that respect. Some stuff was great, some good, and some just blew.
But it's kind of what I was expecting I guess.
So back to the OP...
I still don't feel Bethesda "dropped the ball"...The differences in the games didn't ruin anything for me, they just changed things.
I guess all of you who don't like Skyrim can hold on to this....in 5 or so years, TES VI won't be anything like Skyrim.
But come back to the forums then and see all the players complaining about that. You'll be amazed.