I think Sansa is semi-delusional when it comes to her thinking that becoming a princess is how it is in the songs. She has it coming to her.
Seriously, man? Take it easy. When Game of Thrones starts, she's like 11. Living in the barren north her whole life, the only thing about the southern courts she knows is the songs about knights and ladies and tournaments. When Joffrey comes, she thinks it'll be just like those stories, until he attacks her sister and kinda ruins their relationship for the rest of the book. From Game of Thrones to the current point in the series (can't remember if the last we saw of her was FFC or DWD), she's matured quite a bit, thanks to Sandor and Cersei ruining her perception of the real world and Littlefinger trying to make her a player in the game.
I finished A Clash of Kings and I'm up to page 100 of A Storm of Swords book one.
Still supporting the Starks.
Spoiler
At this point If I was Robb I would just march back north with my
army, crush Roose Bolton's rebellion and fight a defensive war from
there. They would most likely win that way.
100 pages into Storm of Swords. Oh, if I could erase my memory and be right there again, I would. That book is so good. As for the spoiler tag, KEEP READING. Robb Stark's one of my favorite characters, definitely my favorite character story-arc, his tale is brilliant and told magnificently. I'll always be a Stark fan, regardless of Martin's apparent hatred for them.
That's what I was afraid of

Looks like I'll have to wait a bit longer to watch season 1. Can't afford to drop $80 on DVDs at the moment.
No you don't. It's definitely not illegal to stream videos from a website. It's illegal to download them. Google "watch game of thrones" and do some surfing. It won't be the best quality, because it's a streamed video, but the series is thus far more about the dialogue and political movements, not about sword fights and battles. You will hardly notice the poor quality.