» Fri Jun 15, 2012 1:34 pm 
			
			
            
             
         
      Welcome to low fantasy.  There is no good or bad, only shades of grey.  Everyone has their good and bad sides to them, are both justified and damnable.  This isn't the tale of heroes and evil you see in the main quest - no, this is one of war.  Dirty, gritty, bloody, civil war.  Neither side is 'in the right', and both have reasons to hate them.
Instead of looking for a right or wrong, look for what your character would choose.  For example:
My Altmer wants to be part of the Thalmor - and that means Talos Worship must be punished.  Sided with Imperials to take down the Talos Worshipers.
My Bosmer is part of the thieve's guild, and joined the Imperials to get her most valuable customer to be the Jarl, in thanks for continued patronage.
My Orsimer did not take too kindly to being put to the axe.  She assassinated the Imperials, and helped the Stormcloaks gain power out of spite.
My Redguard came from Hammerfell in support of her Skyrim brothers and sisters.  After what the Aldmeri and Empire did to her homeland, she'd gladly lend her axe to others in trouble.
My Imperial is a supplier for the Imperials.  There was some confusion at first, sure, but no merchant will turn down a great source of revenue... nor the publicity for helping to quell a rebellion back at home.
My Nord returned to Skyrim to help her brothers and sisters.  She agrees with the Stormcloaks and their cause, and is an avid worshiper of Talos.
And those are my six characters - one for each guild, a merchant, and my actual dragonborn run.  And that's how they view the war - it's more of a personal level on the characters themselves.  Personally, I'd side with the Stormcloaks.  Sure, there's some problems to deal with, but we can work on that post-war.  Besides, that'll be something that takes generations to change, not something you can do overnight.  After all... children are oh-so-easily indoctrinated into new ideas.  The biggotry can quite literally be bred out of Skyrim.