I respected The jarl..i really did. I mean he was an easy going guy and [censored] i helped his guards kill a dragon he lets me buy a house...screw the whole "my people need to know u first"..hes more like "u helped save this town, hey why dont u buy a house here?". He was cool BUUUUUT unfortuantly he chose the wrong side in my game. No i didnt enjoy battling in the first city i lived in or having to fight a man i call friend...BUT for the good of the country we had to draw blades against each other. He fought to keep his people safe under the empire and i fought to keep his people safe under a free skyrim. I would have loved to have him fight beside me for the glory of a free Skyrim but he chose to fight to keep them under the empire. i have no problems at all with the charector or his morals...we had different ideals and ideas for what was best for the people fo Skyrim and we stood against each as men, he fougth with much honor. But his hold was a very vital position for takign skyrim back from the emperial forces and for the greater good fo the country i had to sacrifise a friend and fight a man i respected.
Thats about the jist of the entire war. Rikke, Ulfric, and Galmar were all once good friends. Civil wars turn friend against friend, and family against family.
It's pretty cool if you export the dialogue you can see the dev notes on how each line is supposed to be delivered.
Some of galmar's lines to rikke during the solitude end are noted as "Desperately hoping he doesn't have to kill his friend"
Rikke's notes when talking to Galmar during windhelm's are noted as "Trying to convince an old friend to stop the bloodshed"