"You're looking for the scroll? I heard there was some guy... Can't remember his name. Way up North, near Winterhold, digging around in some ruins for one. 'Course, you could always just try the College. I'm sure somebody there would be able to help you."
As for the rest of your post, you're treating me like I personally cried and begged for everything you listed. You know where the people are who asked for those things? Playing the game, because they're happy with the changes. I, however, am not. Why was it okay when they were complaining, but not when I do it?
No harn intended to anyone. Sorry if it came across that way. But when the dlc came out it was assumed by Bethesda that most everyone had played the main quest and would know about the dragon scroll. No pun intended.