I think some perspective is needed for some of you newer gamers.
Three weeks, a month, 2 months... that's really not a "long time". I guess it is in today's world where everyone plays a game for a week and moves onto the next big thing, where a movie can't retain the number 1 spot at the box office for more than a week or two unless it's a HUGE movie, or someone considers a song released last year to be "old". I don't know or pretend to know what everyone's life is like on these boards, but 5 days a week I go to work, I come home I've got things to do, there's bills to pay, etc... a month is nothing anymore. I think when you're younger it feels like everything takes forever, but it's just been over a month since the release of New Vegas, that's not very much time. Also, consider this:
What would have happened if a game like this had been released in the early 90's?
I grew up in the early 80's and 90's. As far as I recall, I've never had any game ever come out that has given me this trouble. I've probably had one or two instances, but generally, something like this was a non-issue. Like you, I work, spend time with the wife, pay bills. But I do have free time, and that free time is something I would like to spend playing a game, which is why I spent the money on it. Some people can play a game 3x's through avoiding the bugs. I really don't have the time or inclination.
going on this "in the 90's" thing...is why I feel the way I do. I grew up playing games that may have had bugs in them...but nothing to this extent. Sure, it's a huge game, but from my PoV...it's not really a game. It's a pretty paper-weight. Sure, I've gone out and bought Fable 3, and a few other games...but that's not the point.
Like I said, and I still stick with it, they don't owe me anything. It'd be good PR, it would make me feel like "Ok, this month of no gaming was not an issue". If not, no skin off anyone's back. In the long term, as simply one customer, and I'm not claiming anything more than just myself, I don't think I'd ever buy any game new from release from them. Not a huge loss for them, and it's ok. I will eventually get a working game so it's no biggie. It does mean though that future releases I can't buy because I can't say to my self "well, they did release a buggy game, and this might be buggy, but they were cool and even though the game was buggy, they compensated for it".