It's interesting though, there's a whole generation of gamers conditioned to min-max thanks to MMOs, and they get a game like this and don't know what to do.
I am level 46. First character. I mostly leveled smithing though found bars/ore, and didn't go out of my way to use shops (i.e., I never bought out their bars and waited a few days, or by fast traveling to different cities for bars), and I was only able to craft each type of armor only shortly before or shortly after the regular enimies started dropping armor of the same type (up to ebon, naturally). My smithing didn't hit 100 until my late 30s
I only leveled enchanting by putting petty and common soul gems (when I had them) into gems/rings/tiaras that were dropped by enemies, then vending them. Enchanting is currently at 70, with no perks invested.
My alchemy is at 26.
I've completed 80% of the game, including the main quest line, but I can kick the difficulty up to the highest level and still be somewhat challenged. Master is easy.
Personally, I avoided the urge to grind, and found it to be refreshing.
I started a new character again a few days ago, figured I give Master a go. I had decided to go for a 2h heavy armor kind of character, and focus on that and maybe later on also skill up 1h + shield. What I found was... [censored] it was hard... any time I found an enemie with a 2h:er they would kill me in 2 - 4 attacks, and they would get these finisher moves too so nothing I could do about it. I played like this up to 25 or so, and I was skilling smithing while leveling, I have not quested exstensivly, not done much main quests, just the random stuff I come across that I feel fit my new character. At level 30 I had 100 in smithing, 35 in enchanting. 20 in alch. And I have only enchanted 2 items so far, because I dont wanna enchant my daedric and ebony items yet, I'll do that when I got higher skill. I try to do all this in a way so I dont get too over powered. But I cant in any way see how ANYONE can say its EASY. Atleast not as a warrior... I can see that it might get easy fast if you skill archery and sneak, then you probably wont need any enchants at all to become overpowered because sneak is crazy as it is and so is archery. But as a warrior, [censored] you'll get smacked around alot! Its starting to get alot better now with full daedric gear. And because more enemies now are lower level then me. I know that past 40 everything start to become very easy. So the whiners here probably push so hard that they hit 45 - 50 super fast and then they come here to whine. My first character got 340 or so hours put in to it, she is quite over powered even tho I dont stack enchants, I do have one of each type on my gear even that is abit too much, if you want a challange. She wear light armor and shield most of the time, has 100 in sneak aswell, decent archery, 100 in 1h, 100 in smithing and enchanting, not much in alchemy. Same there, I dont go out of my way to make my character super over powered. Its like many of you have said, ITS A CHOICE. Stop the stupid whining... go away! Go back to WoW or what ever you came from. Makes me sick reading all these dumb posts... (this i directed to the OP) Skyrim is great, it gives us choices, you can play as a GOD or a simple farmer put in a sticky situation.. what ever you want... its up to you! Dont come here and complain! I can understand those complaining when they have poor performence on the PS3 or what ever, but this.. thats just... dumb.