Mods don't help console players.
Also, mods aren't needed if the professionals do it right the first time.
Mods, or modifications, are a tool that enables a user to create a more personal experience. Developers create a game, and people mod it to make it more suited for them. You should not, in any way, force your own vision of a game onto a developer. Your opinion, vision, or ideas, are moot when compared to the the audience as a whole. You're not an individual, you're part of a collective audience that a developer seeks to cater to.
So please go be an entitled child somewhere else.
For balancing issues there is the ability to do it "right" for everyone.
Balancing, if done right the first time, would have never allowed Iron Daggers to power level you through Smithing, or make it so that you can do any Stamina based combat action with just 1 Stamina.
Gaming the system is present in every Bethesda game, with Skyrim the ability to game the system is much less pronounced as this idea of "balance" you allude to has actually been implemented in the game.