I'm not that extreme at least. If I'm driving close to the speed limit and I have someone only a few inches behind me as if urging me on, then I just lower the speed. It's enough to get some people frustrated (I think it's usually pretty obvious I do it on purpose), but not enough to goad mentally stable people into violence. But then I guess the more reckless drivers are more likely to be persons with aggressive mentalities compared to the people who drive in a responsible manner, so I'm well aware that I might piss off the wrong person one day.
Most people aren't extreme; and I suspect most people don't like tailgaters: apart from being rude and aggressive, they're dangerous. One could make a reasonably convincing case that slowing down is actually the appropriate response, although pulling over and letting them bother someone else is probably the best bet, as galling as it might seem to "give in" to someone pressuring you.
Not that I'm trying to make a judgement call on whether slowing down is a good or a bad thing, I'm just pontificating really!