Get over it. There is nothing wrong with Steam.
Can one of those that says the exe can still be patched please give me a step-by-step process for doing this now? I'd prefer to leave Steam online, if possible. And I'd also prefer to run the game without crashing every 30 minutes.
Considering that you are forced to run steam to run the game, and you are forced to either update or not get fixes makes it so that steam IS an issue. If we didn't have to run one program through another, this wouldn't be an issue. Besides, I know people who have already pirated the game from a legal copy, without patching or any modification, so it's not like steam is actually stopping any pirating.
Besides, some of us run 64 bit system with more than 2 gb of ram, and want to use what we actually have. Your insistence that we should just "get over it" not only seems like the statement of ignorance, but also makes me think you don't have the issue and therefore don't care simply for that reason. I don't have any issues with the update, but that's not the point. Some are.
So get over it. Steam is flawed, skyrim's drm is flawed, and there is no amount of handwaving is going to change that.
Still a damn good game.