Alas, Thadon is dead already.
We share the sorrow of your loss. He is with the fallen.
It completely changed the way I play. I no longer just run and gun. It takes a little more thought, for me. Still not to the point of being too cautious and not doing anything.
I am glad you ran with it and hope you start a new.
This is gold! I think I have my new character! But this one MUST use the Thu'um.

Yes, the power of the voice. That type of character should start with that as a racial ability.
Well, I thought I'd give this a go
And we are thrilled you thought to give it a go. Great stuff. Look forward to hearing more about your Bosmer.
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Well, I ended up with a few corrupt saves. This scene of unfortunate events was obviously from testing so many mods with a continuing character. I usually test mods with a new default character placed in Riverwood from the main menu, using the console command
coc Riverwood
So I was very frustrated and in the heat of things I inadvertently deleted saves that I meant to keep. I should have moved them to another folder for safe keeping.
Looking at the glass as half full. This gives me a chance to restart Tomar La Vida, like he was meant to be. I wasn't thrilled about the way he started or the way his build was headed, anyway. So all is well...aside from the fact that ValKyn and MyKyn are lost. But what can you do?
Keep going! That's what! And here we go with the new and improved Tomar La Vida.
Notable mods I am using ;
Traps http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=12709 great, but I would really love to be able to add my own poison.
More traps http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=9463 a nice selection of traps and bombs
Death in a bottle http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=10868 this is an absolute brilliant poisoner mod. Some of the ones are amazing. Like..
The targets shadow comes to life and attacks the target. Or...
I forget the name but it throws the target into this heightened state of psychotic madness. Cycling through stages of Calm, Fear and Fury every few seconds.
Runes, and lots of them http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=5898 This mod is a huge addition for any mage. I just got it for the impressive selection of runes. And it lets you set multiple ones. This will be great for the bombs from the trap mods that need you to shoot them to activate. Smashing!
And as always the LAL mod.http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=9557
Tomar is the last of a blodline from the Dark Brotherhood in Cyrodiil. Knowing that the Brotherhood would execute her unborn child. His parents escaped and raised him in seclusion. They made tale of an uncle in Skyrim. He had a secret location just outside of Whiterun. (another player home mod).
Loosing his father in a freak Minotaur attack on their secluded home. Tomar spent his teen years with is mother. A renowned, respected and feared Alchemist. She taught Tomar her mastery in the art of potions and poisons.
MOTHER : Any Oaf can kill, my son. Execution is an art. A poem recited with the breath of deadly vapor. An opera conducted with a bladed baton. A portrait overlay of crimson. Each one to be as unique as the mark themselves. Hold dear these words, my son. As you enshrine the 5 tenants of the Brotherhood.
TOMAR : I will mother. I will never forget.
In the passing years Tomar's mother grew ill. In her last moments she tells him of a Mark that needs to be eliminated. This was a mark that was left stale from the Brotherhood. A Mark that she and his father swore by Sithis....A mark by the name of ______.
MOTHER : The one know as ______ has fled to Skyrim. Go to Skyrim, my son. Find your Uncle, find ______ and fulfill the contract that was written in blood...fulfill your destiny. Now, go with Sithis, my son The Nightmother calls for me.
TOMAR : May she wrap you in her cold, loving embrace...Go with Sithis, dear mother...*tear*
Tomar sets out aboard a vessel to take him up the East cost to the North shore of Skyrim. The ship takes damage from a large patch of ice, during a massive storm, and capsizes. Tomar comes to...barely alive and all but freezing. Held up by a floating cargo chest, he gains his senses, salvages everything he can carry and swims from the sinking vessel.
He makes it to shore and encounters a small pack of wolves. Using a woodcutter's axe from the wreck, he takes them out easily. The temp is dropping fast, he is wet and on the verge of dying from hypothermia. He seeks shelter in what seems to be an ancient Nord ruin. This will have to do, for now.
He starts a fire and sheds the cold wet clothes to dry them by the heat.http://cloud.steampowered.com/ugc/560942102393607964/8466BF0DFF9824BCFC7D3F0757ADC36188F335D0/
He has but two questions. Where am I?. And better yet...who am I?
EDIT : After posting this, I thought about the addition of this mod http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=11163 and the influence it would have had on the "shipwrecked" option of the alternate start. But it doesn't get activated in the game until you get the "Survival Guide" from an Innkeeper. Otherwise I would have restarted. I installed it anyway.
Another one I will note, and it should be interesting, is this one. http://skyrim.nexusmods.com/downloads/file.php?id=15094 We'll see.