To me you sound like a ‘half-full’ type of person. Where I see the mechanics and the systems provided by the game designer, and I adapt and master them as best I can and thereby immerse (or if I cant I move on); you see all kinds of things you personally don’t like and you focus on those things as obstacles and annoyances; and you let yourself get upset about them; and thus they become magnified in your mind; and so you cant ignore or overklook them; and so you cant immerse because you’re so upset; and thus you spoil the experience of the game for yourself.
Nah, I really enjoy Skyrim most of the time, but that doesn't mean I should not complain about the things I don't like and the whole HUD thing is hard to overlook since it permeates everything you do in the game. Honestly, I really don't play anything other than TES/Fallout games. I mean I have played a lot of other games, just last week I played Dark Souls for about three hours and the week before that I played Two Worlds Two for four hours, but neither of those games did anything for me.
I typically only play any other game for a few hours before getting bored with it because it is not a TES/Fallout game. There are no other games that deliver a TES type of experience. I have got a few thousand hours in TES/Fallout games and maybe a two hundred in all other video games combined.
That is part of why people get so worked up about TES games -- there is no substitute, so telling them "just don't play it if you don't like it" is tantamount to telling them to just stop playing video games. At least that is how it is for me.
I recognise it is completely relevant and normal to note things that seem to be less than ideal; and to write about them on a forum as positive criticisms; but what I don’t get is the depth of venom and intense negativity that some posters vent (not necessarily you).
Well, it is a forum for expressing opinion, and some folks who express venom really care about these games a lot and are expressing how much they care about them with intense language.
I sometimes find myself wondering after reading one of the more extreme ventings; if this is how this person feels and expresses themselves about a computer game (which is a pretty awesome game by any reasonable criteria and by popular acclaim) what must they be like to live with?
I am not sure whether there is any correlation there cause this is a forum and we are talking about a video game after all, so it is pretty hard to take anything said here too seriously. I would not assume that the venom spewers necessarily are any harder to live with IRL than anyone else.