"Skyrim just holds your hand for everything."
"Unlike Skyrim, I miss the way Morrowind made you actually think to solve a quest."
"I don't like that Skyrim uses a map marker for every quest."
I don't know any easier way to say it: These statements are just blatantly false! Skyrim has a metric ton of quests that do absolutely no hand-holding at all. In fact, most of the quests in my journal have no map marker associated with them. If you look closely at the ones that DO have quest markers, it's because the quest giver actually already knew exactly where you needed to go so, therefore, it makes sense that your map would point you there.
I've seen treasure maps, stories in books, mysterious notes, and overheard conversations about quests that can be done without any journal entry at all. Some do give me a journal entry with no map marker, some do not. The point is that there is no basis for this insane criticism that "Skyrim spoon-feeds your quests". It's simply not true.
All quests you find have quest markers. Personally I like it since there are so much quests and I explore anyway so....you have a map, and the map gets upgraded. Whats wrong with that.